电视剧里的情节常常都会说道男女之间要分手的原因都会是在同居和互相了解之后。。。
通常,纷争的源头都会从一些小事情开始。。。譬如说,使用牙膏的方式。。。
这或许对许多人来说是一件非常渺小的事,女人总会为这些芝麻蒜皮而发起杀令。然而,挤牙膏,其实是牵涉到了一个人从小开始的生活模式及习惯,一个对你影响深远的习惯噢~~
电视剧里,男的,总会是从中间挤牙膏的那一个,当然,也有例外的。。。就譬如说那男的是处女座的。。本人并没有郫视处女座男生的意思,要怪就怪那些编剧吧!
挤牙膏就像人的相处模式,当你要与另外一个陌生人发展一个崭新的关系时,都会慢慢的进行,不是吗?这时,你就像是从药膏的尾端,慢慢的,把它给挤出来。。。
那么,在中间把牙膏挤出来,又是什么相处模式呢?我个人觉得就像是当别人的第三者,在中间插上一脚,把原本可说是平坦得道路,变得凹凸不平,崎岖难行。。。
不晓得大家有没有发现市场上有一种产品,是可以让你把牙膏吊起来,慢慢地从尾端把牙膏挤出的呢?不久前托朋友买了一个,真让我爱不释手。。。
相信也可以让那些同居的男女们减少彼此间的纷争。。。=P
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Sunday, October 25, 2009
the beginning of my 1st short trimester....
It is going to be the second week for the total of 7 weeks for this short trimester by 2mr..
At first, i thought it was an easy come easy go trimester for me.. Since i just need to focus on and score in ONE main subject for the whole trimester...
Then, i started to plan for my trips to ipoh and cameron highlands... u know wat? I felt tat im to excited wit it as i have so many preparation works to do before i start wit d assignments..
I've jz came back frm Ipoh when i wrote this.. Allow me to say thanks one of my good fren, OL n her family here... They are so friendly to US( me n WS) when we stayed at their house during the last weekend...
The Cameron trip is about to be cancelled... Coz there will be a gathering for our course besides the preparation works for assignments.... Sry to those who has been disapointed..
Finally, i would like to say: OMG.. So many things to be done.... >>MAY "PuSA" BLESS ME....<<
At first, i thought it was an easy come easy go trimester for me.. Since i just need to focus on and score in ONE main subject for the whole trimester...
Then, i started to plan for my trips to ipoh and cameron highlands... u know wat? I felt tat im to excited wit it as i have so many preparation works to do before i start wit d assignments..
I've jz came back frm Ipoh when i wrote this.. Allow me to say thanks one of my good fren, OL n her family here... They are so friendly to US( me n WS) when we stayed at their house during the last weekend...
The Cameron trip is about to be cancelled... Coz there will be a gathering for our course besides the preparation works for assignments.... Sry to those who has been disapointed..
Finally, i would like to say: OMG.. So many things to be done.... >>MAY "PuSA" BLESS ME....<<
Friday, September 18, 2009
i have realized....
Just Realized~
everyone....
has a different life.
Just Realized~
im so different with others..
those i have met since i was young.
Just Realized~
we are all doing different things...
by now..
Just Realized~
some of them are having marriage life..
living with their partner under the same roof..
i mean, permanently.
Just Realized~
some of them are the fans of all those branded stuffs.
especially those are already in the "University of Society"
While for me, by now...
Stil struggling with my books...
somehow... HK dramas as well..
Really...
i have just REALIZED~~
everyone....
has a different life.
Just Realized~
im so different with others..
those i have met since i was young.
Just Realized~
we are all doing different things...
by now..
Just Realized~
some of them are having marriage life..
living with their partner under the same roof..
i mean, permanently.
Just Realized~
some of them are the fans of all those branded stuffs.
especially those are already in the "University of Society"
While for me, by now...
Stil struggling with my books...
somehow... HK dramas as well..
Really...
i have just REALIZED~~
Thursday, September 17, 2009
勇闯红灯!!
大脑:都说了最近是考试期,主人应该吃多点来补充脑力。。。
脂肪:闭嘴!我们的'数量'原本就不少了,现在又不断增加,想挤死我们吗?
大脑:你们可以不要那么自私吗?十万火急啊,当然是主人的考试重要!!
迟些再帮你们削减下'数 量'不就得了吗?
双腿:大脑你就别再'油上加油'了好吗?不只是大脑,我也快撑不住这等重量了呀!!!
最近开始留意自己的体重。
发现自己实在太不自爱了,体重竟然到了自己所定下的极限!!
救命啊!!谁来帮帮我?
脂肪:闭嘴!我们的'数量'原本就不少了,现在又不断增加,想挤死我们吗?
大脑:你们可以不要那么自私吗?十万火急啊,当然是主人的考试重要!!
迟些再帮你们削减下'数 量'不就得了吗?
双腿:大脑你就别再'油上加油'了好吗?不只是大脑,我也快撑不住这等重量了呀!!!
最近开始留意自己的体重。
发现自己实在太不自爱了,体重竟然到了自己所定下的极限!!
救命啊!!谁来帮帮我?
Thursday, September 10, 2009
my editorial.... A love-hate Relationship with PPSMI(edited by elween)
Since the implementation of Teaching Mathematics and Science in English (PPSMI) in year 2003, it has become a hot issue in Malaysia especially among educationalists and also parents. From time to time, there are always either individuals or interest groups who attack the policy with a barrage of criticism. Even members among the government itself are arguing among each other, either in the hope of preserving the status of their mother tongue or to gain political mileage.
While announcing to the nation regarding on the abolishment of the policy, Deputy Prime Minister, Tan Sri Muhyiddin Yassin said that the government will have enough time to improve the teaching in English, followed by the teachng of Mathematics and Science in Bahasa Malaysia in 2012.
As we know, most specialized terms and jargons in these two subjects are using English as the medium universally. In order for students to be able to communicate more effectively in understanding, the suitable language as the medium plays a crucial role. Viewing from the global perspective, teaching Science and Mathematics in English will definitely enhance interaction among the intellectuals and eventually, this prepares students for tertiary education as well as in their respective fields. This was one of the major concerns driven by the government when the policy was first introduced.
At the very first thought, teaching Science and Mathematics should be fully utilized to improve the strategy of teaching in English. Much effort was put in during the early stages of the implementation. Based on the result from the short lifespan 6-year experiment with PPSMI, the reverting seems to be taken place too fast a time.
Using a comment given by Muhyiddin in his speech, he expressed that in order to survive in the highly competitive environment, the nation itself should be always 'one step ahead' than what we have now. This revert somehow contradicts the viewpoint he made. The reason behind, again, we refer back to the factor of laguange use in the global arena. Instead of limiting the education exposure to the regional lingua franca, wouldn't it better if we prepare the future generation for the international lingua franca?
The right to amend the policy remains in the hand of the government. Any form of education policy that is being constructed, it will definitely result in dissent among particular groups of people as win-win situation does not take place nine times out of ten. Thus, it brings us to the second thought that for an education policy to perform well, it should conform to the needs of the people, considering the applicability in a particular context and time. It could be a sign that has been rectified by the educationalists among governmental agencies that our education system might not be ready for PPSMI, just yet.
While announcing to the nation regarding on the abolishment of the policy, Deputy Prime Minister, Tan Sri Muhyiddin Yassin said that the government will have enough time to improve the teaching in English, followed by the teachng of Mathematics and Science in Bahasa Malaysia in 2012.
As we know, most specialized terms and jargons in these two subjects are using English as the medium universally. In order for students to be able to communicate more effectively in understanding, the suitable language as the medium plays a crucial role. Viewing from the global perspective, teaching Science and Mathematics in English will definitely enhance interaction among the intellectuals and eventually, this prepares students for tertiary education as well as in their respective fields. This was one of the major concerns driven by the government when the policy was first introduced.
At the very first thought, teaching Science and Mathematics should be fully utilized to improve the strategy of teaching in English. Much effort was put in during the early stages of the implementation. Based on the result from the short lifespan 6-year experiment with PPSMI, the reverting seems to be taken place too fast a time.
Using a comment given by Muhyiddin in his speech, he expressed that in order to survive in the highly competitive environment, the nation itself should be always 'one step ahead' than what we have now. This revert somehow contradicts the viewpoint he made. The reason behind, again, we refer back to the factor of laguange use in the global arena. Instead of limiting the education exposure to the regional lingua franca, wouldn't it better if we prepare the future generation for the international lingua franca?
The right to amend the policy remains in the hand of the government. Any form of education policy that is being constructed, it will definitely result in dissent among particular groups of people as win-win situation does not take place nine times out of ten. Thus, it brings us to the second thought that for an education policy to perform well, it should conform to the needs of the people, considering the applicability in a particular context and time. It could be a sign that has been rectified by the educationalists among governmental agencies that our education system might not be ready for PPSMI, just yet.
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
stress..?
While im facing my exam recently, i see a lot of my friends who are also studying with their very best effort..
But, somehow, im quite envy wit them as they can still visit the lake, mamak stalls and stil playing around with their friends during this critical period for me..
Is it im putting so much stress on myself? I cant join them.. Because i don want to let myself regret. In my opinion, those activities are wasting my time. If i get a bad result in this test, mayb i could still tell myself that at least i have try my best by not wasting a single hour outside there..
HOwever, things are really subjective sometimes... You can say u are enjoying ur uni life or you can just say that the pointer are not so important..
To be happy, do watever u like. There is no wrong or right in those things that have no formula..
So, don ever say im wrong again....
U may enjoy ur short period of happiness now.. But, what i want is the proud that i can gain for me, myself, and also my parents. They will feel happy n proud wit me...
What do you get when u get happiness now but not after d result being released? Only blames and scold frm the people around you...
But, somehow, im quite envy wit them as they can still visit the lake, mamak stalls and stil playing around with their friends during this critical period for me..
Is it im putting so much stress on myself? I cant join them.. Because i don want to let myself regret. In my opinion, those activities are wasting my time. If i get a bad result in this test, mayb i could still tell myself that at least i have try my best by not wasting a single hour outside there..
HOwever, things are really subjective sometimes... You can say u are enjoying ur uni life or you can just say that the pointer are not so important..
To be happy, do watever u like. There is no wrong or right in those things that have no formula..
So, don ever say im wrong again....
U may enjoy ur short period of happiness now.. But, what i want is the proud that i can gain for me, myself, and also my parents. They will feel happy n proud wit me...
What do you get when u get happiness now but not after d result being released? Only blames and scold frm the people around you...
Thursday, April 9, 2009
除了肉眼,我们还可以用心体会这个世界
最近有个朋友,因为考虑到自己的未来,犹予着要不要继续现在的学业。
她,是我在大学里认识,算是很讲义气的朋友,有什么事,她都会关心和陪伴。
她从很小开始,眼睛就有问题,近年来严重了,医生要她把握时间,到特殊学院,趁早学会盲人基本的生活技能。
我总是替她感到可惜, 为什么这么年轻,就必须放弃自己的梦想?她,也很难过,但却无能为力,命运就是如此。
写这篇文章前,我认为既然我们无法改变事实,那倒不如我们坦然接收,往好的方面去向。这句话,很多人都会说,但做起来,又真的有像说那样容易吗?
人,总是习惯用肉眼观看这个世界,但有没有人想过,就算没有了双眼,我们也可以活得很精彩。
闭上你的双眼,或许你会感觉到,平常你依赖着它生存的空气,也有些你看不见的感觉。
所以,朋友,不要灰心,就算你没有亲爱的眼睛,你也一样可以做到平常人所做到的,甚至更多。
下个学期,或许我再也看不见你,但请记得,我还是会支持你,过你精彩的人生!
她,是我在大学里认识,算是很讲义气的朋友,有什么事,她都会关心和陪伴。
她从很小开始,眼睛就有问题,近年来严重了,医生要她把握时间,到特殊学院,趁早学会盲人基本的生活技能。
我总是替她感到可惜, 为什么这么年轻,就必须放弃自己的梦想?她,也很难过,但却无能为力,命运就是如此。
写这篇文章前,我认为既然我们无法改变事实,那倒不如我们坦然接收,往好的方面去向。这句话,很多人都会说,但做起来,又真的有像说那样容易吗?
人,总是习惯用肉眼观看这个世界,但有没有人想过,就算没有了双眼,我们也可以活得很精彩。
闭上你的双眼,或许你会感觉到,平常你依赖着它生存的空气,也有些你看不见的感觉。
所以,朋友,不要灰心,就算你没有亲爱的眼睛,你也一样可以做到平常人所做到的,甚至更多。
下个学期,或许我再也看不见你,但请记得,我还是会支持你,过你精彩的人生!
Saturday, February 14, 2009
好爱他, 好想他
This morning is the day just after the Valentine's Day. I stay alone in my room, looking at his photo, feel very very miss him. Suddenly i felt that i'm so far with him, feel lost.
Sometimes i feel very scared that he will leave me alone. If there is a day without him, what should i do? Do you understand how was that feel?
For some of the guys, i could be an annoying girl, because i will cry although there was only a small matter happen between us. But, he never scolded me because i cry, he will be very patient waiting for me to calm down although there was time that we are quarreling through the phone.
When i meet him next week, i would like to take more photos with him, have some sweet memories of two of us.
Hmmm... If you have read this passage, i would like to say thank you because this is the first passage i would have post onto the blog...Hope that i will have more experiences that i could share here in the future.
Lastly, i would like to wish all the couples to be together forever...
Sometimes i feel very scared that he will leave me alone. If there is a day without him, what should i do? Do you understand how was that feel?
For some of the guys, i could be an annoying girl, because i will cry although there was only a small matter happen between us. But, he never scolded me because i cry, he will be very patient waiting for me to calm down although there was time that we are quarreling through the phone.
When i meet him next week, i would like to take more photos with him, have some sweet memories of two of us.
Hmmm... If you have read this passage, i would like to say thank you because this is the first passage i would have post onto the blog...Hope that i will have more experiences that i could share here in the future.
Lastly, i would like to wish all the couples to be together forever...
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